Seeking love à la carte. Opinion piece.

Will we marry robots? An analysis of matchmaking and AI

The search for an ideal partner has been a constant throughout human history. Over the centuries, we have established a series of criteria, conscious or unconscious, to find that special person who complements our lives.

Dating sites are filled with dissatisfied people who go from relationship to relationship.

All their clients deny it, but they can't avoid being in them. And the number increases every day, and in the end, we project onto them the same errors of a society that is increasingly connected but increasingly incapable of humanity. So, perhaps the answer lies in the divine.

Because in an increasingly digitalized world dominated by artificial intelligence (AI), it's possible that one day, tired of the proven difficulties in finding and securing a partner, we might opt for a love based on artificial intelligence. Thus, we would continue to practice the "I want this, I want it now" attitude, like someone who buys a product on Amazon.

Could we be on the verge of completely redefining what a relationship means?

The mirror of the ideal couple

Traditionally, we have looked for qualities in our partners that reflect our values, interests, and aspirations. We desire someone who understands us, supports us, and makes us feel loved. In this sense, the ideal partner becomes a kind of reflection of ourselves, a mirror in which we see ourselves confirmed and valued.

AI as a personalized solution

AI, with its ability to learn and adapt, offers the possibility of creating highly personalized virtual companions. Imagine an automaton programmed to share our interests, remember our important dates, and adapt to our tastes.

This technology could satisfy our need for connection and companionship in a radically new way.

Why might we prefer an automaton?

• Infinite customization: An automaton could be custom-designed, adapting to our most specific preferences.

• Consistency: Unlike humans, an automaton would not have bad days or mood swings.

• Infinite patience: He could listen to us tirelessly and offer us unconditional support.

• Conflict Elimination: By being programmed to please, an automaton could avoid many of the conflicts typical of human relationships.

The risks and limitations

However, this idyllic vision raises a number of questions and concerns:

Lack of genuine emotional connection: Human relationships are based on a deep emotional connection that goes beyond compatibility. Can an automaton replicate this complexity?

Social isolation: Over-reliance on robots could lead to social isolation and a decrease in our ability to relate to other human beings.

Dehumanization: What does it mean to be human if our most intimate relationships are with machines?

Ethics: The creation of artificial companions raises important ethical issues, such as the possibility of manipulation and the creation of sentient beings.

Conclusion

The possibility of having relationships with automatons presents a fascinating yet disturbing scenario. While technology offers new possibilities for human connection, it is essential to reflect on the ethical and social implications of this revolution.

Questions for reflection:

• To what extent are we willing to give up the complexity and unpredictability of human relationships in exchange for a perfect partner?

  
  

• What does love mean in a world where relationships can be custom-designed?

• How can we ensure that the development of AI in the field of relationships is carried out in an ethical and responsible manner?

Ultimately, the decision to establish relationships with automatons will be a personal choice.

However, it is crucial that we have an open and honest debate about the implications of this new reality.

What do you think about this topic?

Do you think relationships with robots will become more common in the future? What are the main challenges we'll face?

Keywords: artificial intelligence, human relations, future, technology, ethics, love, automata, ideal couple.